IT DID NOT START WITH YOU (Spanish version below) Principles Resistance to suffering prolongs pain and keeps the pain there. Traumas are not kept in the declarative memory, which is the one accessible consciously, but in the subconscious memory, so the rational brain cannot access these memories directly and verbalize them. The problem is that when the emotions are overwhelming, the person blocks them, thus preventing the healing movement. A non-conscious memory keeps repeating itself until it becomes conscious. Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate. (Jung). Understanding a problem at an intellectual level is not enough to produce a change; it must be understood at a visceral level. The descendants of survivors carry similar physical and emotional symptoms (R. Yehuda). The story with the family already began before birth: a grandmother who is 5 months pregnant already ca...